Seretonin's Blog

Lesson 1

May 11, 2008

Helping others with their problems is hard

When you speak to someone you seem to know that something is troubleling them. So you try and help out. You may end up giving them some advice that they end up taking. In the end you feel good at what you did and they thank you for helping. What is hard is what happens after that. The next time you speak they feel like your a friend..maybe. Another day passes and keeping intouch seems harder. By the third meeting whether it is in person or on the internet the appreciation of helping is now one sided. You help them out and they soon forget what you did. It is hard enough to help out and put your own hurt aside but then the hurt keeps coming. There is now no one that can appreciate what you do anywhere..... if it is soon forgotten

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      lilred64
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      For those who understand, no explanation is necessary. For those who don't, no explanation will suffice.
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      Posted 1 month ago by lilred64

      True friends don't forget. Those that do, well were they really someone you would want as a friend? I won't forget. You were one of the first people to help me with this site, unconditionally, and I appreciate it. P.S. From what you're teaching me about web sites, I'll be able to ask for a raise at my job soon!

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      KoolKat675
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      if i were you,and you were me, would we still have,this same reality?
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      Posted 2 months ago by KoolKat675

      its sad, but its the truth. people always want to take and never want to give back. my "friends" are the same. <3

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      wolf_child14
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      The pain of a broken heart...hurts worse than any physical pain...and lasts so much longer...
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      Posted 7 months ago by wolf_child14

      hey, i kno that ur here for me and want to help and i really appreciate it and i promise i wont forget how you help make me feel better, and i alway keep my promises

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      trishluvscriss
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      Dont Give A Fuck Bout U
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      Posted 7 months ago by trishluvscriss

      i will never beable to forget bout my problem with my crush cause of u were bffs and im really greatful i luv u <3

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      even the 1 u thought u knew cant b trusted in the end
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      Posted 7 months ago by HCAmf

      Hey hun, I hope I didnt do anything to make u mad :( im really sorry, i didnt mean to make you feel unappreciated :( plz plz talk to me. plz tell me if i did any thing wrong :(

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      Posted 7 months ago by HCAmf

      I havent forgotten all of the help you have given me. I appreciate you sooo much. and u have been such a huge help in my life. :) If you need to talk about anything plz plz dont forget that I will listen and help u as best as I can. Thanks again, :) I love you (hugs, n, kisses u) :)

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      Mindfreakwitch
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      Posted 7 months ago by Mindfreakwitch

      I will never forget your help and that you are listening to me my Friend . And Daniel i say it over and over again that you are really sweet and nice guy.